A father told Abraham that he wants to disown his son because of his lack of respect among other things.
Abraham said “If this were not important to you, you would have no emotional response to it. If someone you don’t know calls you and says they will never talk to you again, you don’t care.”
“Your emotional response is the harmony or lack of it with your Inner Being. While you are having this statement (wanting to disown the son), your Inner Being is not vibrating anywhere near you.”
“Anything you do from a place of negative emotion is counterproductive.”
“Your connection with your Inner Being is the most important thing -- more important than your relationship with others.”
Abraham then talked about the generation gap and how different generations have a difference in their general approach to life.
“It doesn’t matter what generation you were born in. Most of you were guided away from your Inner Being. You find fault with anyone who does not conform to your beliefs. Your overall viewpoint is ‘My way is better than yours.’’”
Referring to the man and his son, she said “Both generations are disconnected from your source of knowing as you have these confronted feelings. You vibrate apart from who you really are.”
“This relationship is not as important as your relationship with your Inner Being.”
This was her suggestion: “Bless this rotten son with a bad attitude for the part that is he playing in your extraordinary wanting. You are willing to let go of this troubleshot so you can feel good.”
She said the father’s intention should be: “I am wanting to have negativity released from my physical experience so I can vibrate in harmony with who I am. Nothing is more important than that I feel good.”
“When you discover your ability to feel good in spite of what someone outside of you is doing or feeling, then you have found total freedom.”
“The belief that someone else must not exist in order for you to feel good violates your greatest knowing -- which is that you create your own experience.”
“It is much easier to find positive thoughts if you don’t have something negative in your space. The idea that you do not have control over how you feel, that you are disconnected from your true being -- then you are in the mode of justifying.”
Abraham suggested we remember that “’Nothing is more important than that I feel good. The way I view life is through my perceptions. I am affected by it, as is everyone who is affected by my vibration. Therefore it is important I feel better, because I am an uplifter. In a connected state I am wiser and surer.’”
“When you are in a pure place of vibration, you can choose not to be with negative people. When you are in a place of pure vibration, the negativity does not haunt you and cause negative attraction -- then it is beneficial to everyone that is a part of your vibration.”
“When you give your attention to anything, you atrract it. As you give attention you send your vibration to an energy web -- reaching out and attracting an object of attention. When you say yes to something, you attract it. When you say no to something, you attract it.”
“Think what you do want. Be around positive people, interact with people who are deliberate in what they speak and think. Then negative people will not be as much a part of your experience.”
“Have you had an experience where you acted unlike yourself? Others’ negative expectation of you was so powerful they extracted behavior from you that is not really you.”
“We want to point out the part of this relationship with negative others that is yours. You can feel it, not like it, acknowledge it, then focus on what you prefer. Then the parts of him that bring you most negativity will be less a part of your experience.”
“Don’t make a decision about what you don’t want - ‘I don’t want to see him anymore’ -- instead focus on what you do want ‘I want to associate with positive people’.”
“Take your own responsibility for what you feel and discover your freedom -- because as long as someone else can change what you feel, you are not free.”
